Are you concerned about your sexual urges involving minors and want free, anonymous help?
Registration for Project Bridge is closed. We kindly refer you to ReDirection (https://www.redirectionprogram.com), or Troubled Desire (https://troubled-desire.com/en), or Help Wanted (https://www.helpwantedprevention.org/index.html). We wish you all the best! |
The project Bridge aims to prevent child sexual abuse by contributing to the development of individualized healthcare services for persons at risk of sexually offending against children. This wider access to healthcare and personalized interventions will hopefully protect children and lead to improved quality of life for individuals with sexual urges involving children. The Bridge project is free and anonymous, also accessible via the Tor browser, prioritizing the safety and comfort of all participants. The study has been approved by the Swedish Ethical Review Authority (Dossier no. 2023-02321-01) and is conducted in accordance with the Helsinki Declaration on Research Ethics. |
The therapeutic interventions are anonymous, free of charge and accessible via TOR browser.
Five text-chat Motivational Interviewing sessions exploring and eliciting the participants' own reasons for change aiming to facilitate help-seeking.
A five-week self-help program based on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help individuals decrease or stop using CSAM. Texted based chat support is available if needed.
Anonymous text-chat interviews exploring how individuals with sexual urges towards minors, experience help-seeking in different countries.
Available in English, Spanish, German, Czech, Slovak, Finnish and Swedish. Bridge is a collaboration between universities and a non-governmental organization in six EU-countries. For reporting obligations in respective country see FAQ below.
For more detailed information on what it entails to participate in the Bridge research project, see below. Also, you can find the FAQ section further below.
Individuals who have participated in Project Bridge share a beacon of hope to other people considering joining the project
“Dare to take this step, the effort is absolutely worth it and you will definitely look at the situation differently afterwards.”
“I’m not sure about everyone but for me sometimes I use CSAM just because I am thinking about it and because using it and temporarily enjoying it feels better than being anxious... having these chats gives me a different place to focus those anxieties and thoughts”
Quotes from individuals who have participated in the Mi Bridge intervention
“I feel relieved to have been able to address the whole issue. My awareness of injustice has increased. I'm curious about the appointment [the study participant signed up for face to face appointment with a local health care provider during Mi Bridge participation] and would love to talk to other people affected... The discussion about values was helpful... and the discrepancy between them and my behavior. I also believe that a lot of further psychotherapeutic treatment is necessary and helpful. It's a process that started here and continues in real life."
“It made me feel more positive that I wasn't someone who can't be changed, that I am worthwhile, and not just someone who doesn't deserve to find happiness”
“It has been a helpful way to start thinking about these issues in a healthier way and to start thinking about the next steps. It has been good to talk to someone who isn't judgmental and is just focused on helping me. It does make me wish I could have conversations like this with other people I trust.”
Quotes from individuals who have participated in the ReDirection intervention
“I just couldn't express my gratitude enough. I know a lot of it may just be standard CBT. But it still gives me hope that there are projects like this to help people like me. That I'm not a total monster and there are ways to manage it.”
"Changing behaviors has helped me a lot, and tips for possible setbacks were also very helpful. I would like to thank you again for this self-help program, it has helped me a lot and I will remember many of the behavioral changes the program helped me make in the future and I will do everything I can to make sure I never have to deal with the use of CSAM again."
*All quotes are authentic, and the participants have approved that we publish them on the Bridge site.
Recruitment runs from 18 September 2023 to 21 July 2024. You register by clicking on the Registration button above. After reading the detailed information about the study, you will be asked to give your consent to participate. Create your login details and book the first interview.
A researcher, also working as a practitioner in the project, will meet you for an anonymous online text-chat interview in order to make sure that you fulfil the criteria to participate in the study.
An anonymous chat interview exploring your views on, and experiences of seeking help for your sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviors involving children. The participation in this interview is optional.
Pre-, during- and after the therapeutic interventions you will be asked to complete a number of questionnaires. The purpose of this is to evaluate the therapeutic interventions, collect information at group level about the participants in the study and to monitor how you are doing during the project.
The participants that are randomised to the waiting list will receive the therapeutic intervention after three or five weeks.
You will be offered one of the two therapeutic interventions we are evaluating, but we cannot influence which intervention you are offered:
Mi Bridge: Chat with a professional practitioner and explore your situation. Find and formulate what is important in your life and take a closer look at different ways to seek help.
ReDirection: Work with the self-help program and learn psychological skills to help change your situation. Use text-based chat to receive additional support.
In the end of the therapeutic intervention you work on, you will be given recommendations for alternative treatments if you need further professional support. The list of "Other organisations" is also available further down the page.
If you have any questions, or are thinking about participating but are unsure of what it entails, you are warmly welcome to email us at projectbridge@protonmail.com.
Principal Investigator:
Dr. Christoffer Rahm
christoffer.rahm@regionstockholm.se
Project Coordinator for the Swedish parts of the project:
Maria Breide, Licensed psychologist
maria.breide@regionstockholm.se
Project Coordinator for the Finnish parts of the project:
Katariina Leivo, Specialist in developmental psychology, Therapist
Katariina.leivo@suojellaanlapsia.fi
Project Coordinator for the Spanish parts of the project:
Professor Rafael Ballester-Arnal
rballest@psb.uji.es
Project Coordinator for the German parts of the project:
Professor Peer Briken
briken@uke.de
Project Coordinator for the Czech parts of the project:
Dominik Jozefik, Licensed psychologist
dominik.jozefik@nudz.cz
Project Coordinator for the Slovakian parts of the project:
Professor Jozef Metenko
jozef.metenko@akademiapz.sk
Collaborators:
Centre for Psychiatry Research, Region Stockholm, Sweden
Suojellaan Lapsia, Protect Children ry, Finland
Universitat Jaume I De Castellon, Spain
Universitaetsklinikum Hamburg-Eppendorf, Germany
National Institute of Mental Health, Czech Republic
Akademia Policajneho Zboru V Bratislave, Slovakia
Linköping University, Sweden
Pedophilia and hebephilia
Pedophilia refers to a sustained sexual interest in prepubertal children, usually children under 10 years old who have not had any body changes that come with puberty. Pedophilic disorder is diagnosed if someone with pedophilia experiences serious distress because of their interest or has acted on their interest in children. Hebephilia is a clinical and research term used for those with a sexual interest in children in early puberty who have just started to develop.
In this research project, we do not give you a diagnosis, but it can be good to have a little information on the topic. A diagnosis is not something that defines you or your identity. It is also not something that is permanent, and whether you meet the criteria for a diagnosis can change over time.
Sexuality as an identity
Some people we meet have created a strong identity around their attraction to children. It can be scary to do something different or learn to change your ideas about yourself and who you are, but it can also be a very positive transformation. It gives you the opportunity to ask yourself, what kind of person do I want to be, and what kinds of things does that person do?
Some people find ways to live without putting too much effort or energy into their sexuality, some allow themselves to be open to signals and attractions but consciously choose not to actively act on it. Finding other meaningful areas to explore, allowing focus on sexuality to rest for a while, becomes positive for some over time.
Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM)
When we (and the legislators) talk about child sexual abuse, we are talking about all children - not just young children. Sexual abuse of children is thus also abuse of teenagers, or abuse committed by other minors. Abuse does not have to involve penetration or even physical contact.
Sexual abuse is characterized by exploiting a child's position of dependence or exposing the child to actions that he or she cannot understand or is mature enough for. Child sexual abuse can be both physical and non-physical, offline and online. It is always a crime for an adult to have sexual contact (physical or non-physical) with a child.
When pictures or videos of sexual abuse of a child are spread around the world, the crime is repeated, over and over again. Those who watch child abuse material online sometimes defend their behavior by saying they are "just watching" and not committing physical abuse themselves. It is by no means innocent to look at abusive material, looking at the material is also illegal in most jurisdictions.
Association for Sexual Abuse Prevention (ASAP) (https://asapinternational.org/) tel.: (541) 891-6168
Provides referrals to mental health professionals as well as counseling services via Skype. Calls therapists on behalf of persons with pedophilia to vet them for views on mandatory reporting as well as for willingness and ability to help people with sexual attraction to children in need.
The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA) (http://www.atsa.com/) tel.: (503) 643-1023
A national professional association of specialists in the field of sexual abuser treatment. Although the therapists primarily treat people who have sexually abused children, we are told that many of the therapists who are listed have the skill and desire to treat people with attraction pattern to Children who doesn't act on it as well. For a referral contact them by phone or email. No identifying information required.
Specialist Treatment Organisation for the Prevention of Sexual Offending (https://stopso.org.uk/) tel.:07473299883
StopSO UK is an organisation that aims to prevent sexual offending through therapy.
Prevention Project Dunkelfeld (https://www.dont-offend.org/) tel.:+49/30/450 529 450
Located in Germany. The Prevention Project Dunkelfeld (PPD) provides confidential treatment free of charge for individuals who have a partial or exclusive sexual preference in terms of pedophilia or hebephilia and seek therapeutic help.
PrevenTell (http://preventell.se/) 020-667788
Located in Sweden. PrevenTell is a help line that people can call in Sweden to receive care for problems with sexuality, and sexual attraction patterns to children.
Circles of Support and Accountability (https://cosa-ottawa.ca/)
Located in Canada, in several countries across EU (www.circleseurope.eu/) and in the United Kingdom (https://circles-uk.org.uk/). Groups of volunteers who provide assistance and social support and who, in turn, receive support and supervision from professionals.
AASECT (https://www.aasect.org/)
A professional organization of sex educators, therapists and counselors. The web site includes a 'Locate a Professional' function, some of whom have expertise with pedophilia.
SSTAR (https://sstarnet.org/)
A community of professionals who have clinical interests in human sexual concerns, including attraction to children. The web site includes a therapist directory.
B4U-ACT (https://www.b4uact.org/)
A community dedicated to supporting people with sexual attraction to children. They help provide therapy and work to find open and empathetic therapists.
Help Wanted (https://www.helpwantedprevention.org/)
Help Wanted is an online course designed to provide the skills and tools necessary for adolescents and young adults with an attraction to children to live safe, healthy, and non-offending lives. Course sessions include strategies for coping with an attraction to children, determining whether and how to talk about their attraction with others, and testimonials from people with an attraction to children who lead successful, offense-free lives. Help Wanted is anonymous and self-paced, and course sessions can be accessed in any order.
Troubled Desire (https://troubled-desire.com/en/)
Troubled Desire is an online service for people who are concerned about their sexual feelings for children and early adolescents. They offer online resources and if available, a local therapist. Hosted in Germany, Troubled Desire guarantees confidentiality and anonymity and is subject to strict European Data Privacy laws. (Website is in English, French, German, Hindi, Marathi, Portuguese, and Spanish).
Stop It Now! (https://www.stopitnow.org/)
Stop it Now! USA - provides education and other resources to prevent child sexual abuse. They have self-help pages for people who are concerned they might engage in harmful sexual behavior, a confidential helpline at 1.888.PREVENT and online chat. (Website is English only).
Stop It Now UK; Ireland - UK & Ireland provides anonymous hotline and confidential advice and support to people worried about their own thoughts, feelings, or behavior towards children. They offer self-help resources for people who are worried about their online behavior, and self-help resources for people who are worried about their thoughts, feelings, or behavior towards minors. (Website language is English).
Stop It Now Belgium - Flanders (Belgium) and Stop it Now! Netherlands provide a confidential helpline at 0800.200.50 (Belgium) and 0800.266.64.36 (Netherlands) and online chat for support. In 2017, both organizations launched “Stopping is Possible” for those who are concerned about their viewing of child sexual exploitation material (child pornography). (Both websites are in Dutch).
PrevenSI (https://prevensi.es/)
PrevenSI. is an organization based in Spain that offers free and anonymous consultation and referrals to those with sexual interest in children through their helpline, messenger, and email. Their helpline and messenger are both open on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays from 4PM to 8PM CET and Tuesdays and Thursdays from 10AM to 2PM CET. (900.440.443)
Dis No (https://www.disno.ch/)
Dis No is a French program based in Switzerland that offers anonymous support for those struggling with their sexual interest in children. They are available through their helpline (0 840 740 640) Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 9:30AM to 12:00PM CET and 1:30PM to 4PM CET
Save the Children Finland (https://www.mielenterveystalo.fi/en/self-help/self-help-program-sexual-interest-children))
This self-help program for people who are concerned about their sexual interest in children can be used anonymously and free of charge. The program is available in English, Finnish, and Swedish. It was produced in collaboration between Save the Children and HUS Psychiatry.
Virtuous Pedophiles (https://www.virped.org)
Virtuous Pedophiles offers an online peer support group for pedophilic individuals committed to never acting sexually with a child. Support group topics include: coping with sexual or romantic feelings about children, depression or anxiety, and social isolation.
Safe to talk (https://safetotalk.nz/)
Safe to Talk is a New Zealand-based program that offers free, confidential support to those who have been sexually harmed, or who are concerned about their own thoughts and behaviors. Email (support@safetotalk.nz), text (4334), live chat, or phone (0800 044 334).
Parafilik Program (https://parafilik.cz/)
Located in the Czech Republic. The Parafilik Program offers online counseling, hotline services, and contact therapy to people with different sexual preferences in the Czech Republic. For up-to-date information on the operating hours of the help line, visit https://parafilik.cz/.
Schicksal und Herausforderung (suh-ev.de)
German association dedicated to promoting self-help among non-offending individuals with a sexual interest in children; the website offers personal counseling via e-mail, information on pedophilia, and a self-help forum, among other services.
Contact the study team
Contact us with any questions about the study or if you need help registering.
Email: projectbridge@protonmail.com